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Category: Reading

  • S’adapter by Clara Dupont-Monod

    This is the sotyr of a family, seen through the eyes of the 3 kids. This is a cruel story, but who is lived by very different ways by all the family members and somehow, their common unhappiness gather them together.

    Il n’y a qu’une lettre qui ne sépare “lire” et “livre”. Si tu ne lis plus, tu es complètement enfermé.

    Quand on est triste, on ne juge pas. Je connais plein de gens tristes qui sont méchants. Alors ce sont des gens malheureux.

    Dans la vie, il y a des bas, mais ca remonte toujours.

  • Kniven i Elden by Ingeborg Arvola

    This is the story of a woman, around 1860, living up norht in Sweden, as non maried and with two kids. She decides to move to Norway to esacape the shame that the church and the society want her to carry because of her two kids outside a marriage. So she moves. She gets herself in some relationship that will show that these times were hard and unfair for women (really?). I’m stricked by her naivity, even if as the same time, I can’t help to think that she should have been helped by other who understood better.

  • Mother an advantage for the career

    I read a whole book yesterday and I’m not sure what I think of it now. This is a book in Swedish called Mother, an advantage for the career and it gives advices on how to get forward thanks to your parenthood.

    On one hand, there are quite good comparisons described in the book on how to act at work, being a better colleague, thanks to the behavior learnings you get while becoming a parent (like reading between the lines, being patient, choosing your fights).

    But on the other hand, it supposes that you were bad at it before, that it came to you just by giving birth to a child and that everyone without kids are not so good at it either. I guess people without kid don’t have interest in reading this kind of literature but I also know a lots of people who have kids and who are bad at a lot.

    Well, I guess the main purpose of the book is to give hope to new mothers in their future career and it could enlighten some. It took as I wrote one evening to read, so I would maybe recommend it because of that (and some humor in the texts as well).

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  • New webzine for sweing addicts!

    I have to tell you a great news: a new webzine is out! It’s all about sewing for you, who want to get your creativity get a place in your life at home.

    You find it here: louise-magazine.com

    The articles are full of humour, good links and tricks. It doesn’t hurt either that the visual is wonderfull: great pictures, a candy for the eyes!

    So, off to your internet and get inspired!

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    Credit picture: screen shot from louise-magazine.com

  • The course of love – Alain de Botton

    This is the last book I finished and I liked it a lot. If you are going to relax a bit for vacation and wonder how far you came with your relationships, then was this book, a guide to a evoluting relationship between a man and a woman who decided at a point to say yes to each other for the better and the worse.

    More about the story here.

  • Framgångsboken, Alexander PÄrleros

    I just finished this book (not sure it is available in another language than swedish). It gave good advises to improve your life. Good words from successful people are also grouped in the book.

  • Jason Diakité -en droppe midnatt

    This is one more book I’ve read this year and I had the pleasure to make it outside. I like the story and the description about ifentity. Who am I when I am not living where I come from? This is something I have to deal with everyday and I thought a lot about my daughter will have to deal with it too. Well written I like this book very much. It gave me a lot of reflections.

  • Meningen med jobbet, Stephan Mendel-Enk

    This was an hilarious collection of short novels, which made me laugh while reading.

    I recommend it if you find the time a bit long until the next holiday.

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  • Jojo Moyes – the one plus one.

    This is the first book I finished to read this year and I liked it.

    Story of a family who fight for a living. It happens quite improbable things in a short period of time but it was a book easy to read. Good moral amd nice writp.

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    Picture borrowed here: https://www.jojomoyes.com/books/the-one-plus-one/

     

  • Högt spel – Gösta Unefäldt

    Last reading from the library. It was a tip from the library people, but I am not really sure why it was so. That’s a bit incomplete btw at the library they tip about a lots of books, but you don’t know why just these books are enlighten. I would like to have a reason, or a theme, or at least a little explanation/word which would hint.

    Anyway, “högt spel” was a criminal novel, taking place in west Sweden. Everything was just so predictable that I got tired of it pretty but I read it until the end. Why? Because there were some strange words in it, a mix of norwegian and swedish somehow. I learn some new vocabulary.

  • Maman a torT, Michel Bussi

    Scary book. Good but scary. I had to stop reading at night because i was having nightmares.

  • Demain, j’arrête, Gilles Legardinier

    Did I say that I force myself to read more? Well, I do. Just because it gives me more than the same time playing with my phone.

    My latest reading was “demain, j’arrête”, book I got from a good friend. It was a funny book, and themost interesting was that it felt as if it was my friend who wrote it. I recommend it for the ones who need some smiles.

  • Sell by Fredrik Eklund

    I bought this book one day I had some dead time before a train I had to catch. The idea was to have something easy to read in order to kill the waiting. After having read all of the book now, I wonder when I’ll plan time to read it a second time.

    This is easy written, no big litteratur there, but full of insights, tips and stories about how to have the life you dream on. You can use it fir your private life, at work and so on. I grew while reading it.

  • Mille femmes blanches

    A novel based on real facts about US history, the not clean one. Touching, the last pages made me both sad and hopeful.

  • Petit pays, Gaël Faye

    Second book of the vacations and it didn’t last long. I needed two evenings to be done with it and it showed the side of the genocide in Rwanda, seen from the eyes of a boy. Very much poetry for a hard story.

  • L’affaire Harry Quebert

    Second book of this summer, in French this time. The story was very unpredictable and I liked this. I can easily be bored with books which story is too easy to figure out and these 800 pages were exciting to read. The story reminded me of the serie “the affair”  somehow but with a murder twist.

    Well, I recommend it.

  • Det är något som inte stämmer 

    This is the last book I listened to and iy wa surprisingly good. Well, to be honest,  I had no big ideas about it before the reading and even if it was a book about end of relationship,  I got scared as with a good murder story. 

    The book is read by the author herself and I have to say that the audio book may be much better than the papper form. She was a good narrative. 

  • I maktens öga – Per Schlingmann 

    This is the last book I read, from 2017. It’s very accurate this week with the week of Almedalen which just began. The story reminds me of a nice House of cards bathing in prejudice from life in Stockholm.  Even Blondinbella is in the book. 

    It was an ok book, specially interesting when you know that the author was Reinfeldt’s PR man. Somehow,  when I was comparing with my own professional life, I thought that it was even too nice in the book sometimes. Maybe time for me toget some vacations…

  • 23 days

    Z is 23 days old. My brother in law is turning 30 years old today. I feel 34 years old and I can guess that M feels 10000 years old. 

    Why do I feel my normal age? Easy peasy! Because I slept from 21:30 to 5:00 last night. And the night before as well. M took the 2 o’clock meals with Z and let me have sooo much hours of sleep in a row. Thank you my dear husband! 

    Why do I guess that M is feeling so old? Yeah, same answer than above plus that he works during the week. Oh, don’t missunderstand me: it is kind of a work as well to be at home with a newborn,  but I don’t need to commute in train or to be on time for appointments and so. 

    Z must feel that weekends are special. She uses to sleep some hours in the morning but she did not do it today and instead slept some hours, ate a little,  cried, and all this in repeat. She is sleeping right now, and I hope she will sleep a good hour more and then wake up hungry. It’s not easy to find rutines…

    For now, a review from a Swedish book. Because yeah, I’ve been reading a book (almost done!). Det är inte du, det är dom. From the authors of the blog hormon och hemorrojder. A big thank you H for this gift, this was one of the best consolation I could get during these first difficult weeks with our newborn. Away the picture of a pink babylife,  with love and romantic everywhere. The descriptions were so much closer to our reality than what everyone described (for example “cosy to breastfeed” meaning for me cosy to go around all day half naked with a hungry baby and bleeding breasts , “enjoy the baby time” meaning for me enjoy not being enough for your kid, “sleep as soon as your baby sleeps” meaning for me no eating, no shower or no poop). I understand that other parents don’t want to scare new ones with the real reality, but personally,  I would have liked being a little prepared for these chocks. Everyone talk about their pregnancy and delivery, even if you don’t want to know, but no one talks about the baby time. I mean, in both situations,  you’ll have to deal with it as a parent, so why making it so taboo? This book would have helped me if I’ve had it before the birth of Z. A reflection though: I think that I understand it better now, when I’ve experienced some part of hell. Well, good book, that I’ll finish right after this post is published! 

  • Shopping stop

    Saturday afternoon on earth and a pretty slow day for us. We slept 12 hours non stoo both of us, so it is nice to to stress anywhere.  We would have gone to the cinema if I’d had a clue where our two free tickets are. I didn’t find them, so we changed our plan and enjoy a calm day at home.

    I read a book called “shopstop” which makes me reflect a lot. The author decided not to buy anything more than food, transport and culture under one year. Between her story of how this project is going on, she interviews different kind of people (an economist,  a priest, the finance minister, a mide journalist etc) and they give the professional point of view about the experiment and consumption in general. 

    It makes me think a lot, specially now, when we are preparing the arrival of the baby. And also now, when Christmas is coming as well as a lots of birthdays in our families. What to buy to adults who already have everything? M and I don’t wish anything. We already think that we have too much in our apartment and really don’t need more.

    I think I will write some posts about my own consumption as future mother (mostly clothes due to the growing belly) and about what we bought, and really needed for the baby after half a year or so.

    Things must have a clear purpose in my home. I don’t measure the importance of a relationship with someone with the amount of things I’ve got from this person. To me, “forced” gifts (the ones you neither needed nor asked for) are a chain to a dependency feeling, which makes the relationship rotten.

  • Another quick sewing project

    This weekend,  we turned back our clocks with one hour to land on winter time. to me , it meant that I got up at 7 new time to eat breakfast a Sunday.  M did the same and 13 hours later, I can tell that many things have been done in the house.

    I sewed some sheets for the baby’s bed this summer and today I finally found the motivation to sew two covers from another that does not fit any bed at home anymore.

    It took me about 2 hours including putting the things in the right place after the job (it often is the most difficult part…) and according to Ikea, it saved us 300 Swedish crowns. not a fortune but a thing less we have at home that is useless and these sheets are more comfortable than new ones.

    I borrowed a book yesterday at the library called “shopstop” and it is precisely about consumption. I’m already against shopping by princip but with a baby (and new needs) coming,  I find it hard to find the right balance between reusing and buying new. we don’t even know what we really will need. 

    I have to stop myself a little tjoug with my own things. when I see my closet,  I think “oh, so much things!” and want to give 70% to charity. at the same time, I forget that these 70% of my clothes cannot be worn right now but will be very useful after that the baby is born… 

    Ok  enough for tonight, I’ll read and sleep probably within 30 min. good night!

  • A good reading 

    Vacations for me this year is synonymous with reading. Long time ago I read that much and it was almost 2000 pages from Pierre Lemaitre that occupied my mind.

    I began with four of his crime novels, which were very surprising and finished yesterdsy with the book he got a price Goncourt for. I warmly recommend this book for the one who like hunir, cynism and surprising stories. Long time ago I couldn’t let a book on the table because I wanted to know what happens next.

  • Time for some rest

    We are right now in France, at my parents place, for some days of farniente. The weather is ideal with sun and warmth and we enjoy some “sport” in the morning, rest after lunch and swimming pool in the afternoon.  By “sport” I meant bicycle, but we walk uphill, too much slope for my taste and a long walk this morning.

    I succeeded to read a book as well, long time it did not happen. This is peaceful here, we saw a lots of birds, insects, flowers and enjoy the calm.

    Here you get one view we had this morning during our almost 7km walk.

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  • Week-end almost done

    It was almost winter here in Sweden thus weekend. We got snow both yesterday and today and it did not motivate us to go outside.

    We watched movies and I attended to read. As always nowadays, I fall asleep after two lines. Boring when I truly would like to know what us happening.

    Oh and this morning, I was to the gym for 75 minutes of yoga. I did not know that I could wobble like that when I stand on my four. Well, this was challenging and nice for my old and unfit body.

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  • Book release

    Last week, I attented something new for me. I went to a book release and on the top of that: I knew for real one of the authors! It was intresting to listen to them talking about the books and to read a part of them as well. Like story telling for adults. Wonderfull!

    I came back home with a load of energy to read but… no. I haven’t read a line since then. I get some kind of anxious behaviour when I take a book, sit myself somewhere confortable and tell to myself: “now, you will read a book and be a good girl”. And it doesn’t matter which book it is, I have plenty of books I genuinly am interested in, but the fact to sit and read stresses me. Which is a big paradox. It is as if I wasn’t done to sit calmly and use my brain.

    Well, luxury problem, somehow but I will read your book D, I promise!

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  • Dagar utan ljus, nätter utan mörker – David Norlin

    This is not every day I can tell that I know a writer. For real! Our friend David Norlin publishes his first novel and I cannot wait to read it myself!

    Here you get a recension in swedish: http://bearbooks.se/2016/01/15/recension-dagar-utan-ljus-natter-utan-morker-av-david-norlin/

    And you can buy the book (in Swedish)  here.

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    picture borrowed from here: http://www.weylerforlag.se/bocker/dagar-utan-ljus-natter-utan-morker/

  • Contemporary and sadness

    This book that I read today is a dramatic description of being different in a poor, very poor area of France at the beginning of the 2000′. Even if I grew up in much better conditions, I can recognize the “traditions” of kids, teenagers and adults when one people is different. This book talks about homosexuality, but I’m sure every too smart or too easy girl, every too darkskined people would have felt the same. Main problem: how do I fit in? Second problem: how do I escape?

    The book was very well written and gets a lots of likes from me, even if the subject is sad. Never forget how difficult it was, or still is, in some places of the world, just to have the right to be different.

      

  • Charlotte – David Foenkinos

    I found it difficult to come into this book. It is written like a poem but it’s a prose. You can guess that something aweful will happen (story of a German Jew girl that begins in the 30′) but somehow, it took 150 pages to become interesting.

    I am not really into reading about others unlucky life’s. I use to think that life is terrible enough in itself, so I prefer action and job for my brain. This book was full of romance and sadness and craziness. At the end of the reading, I feel bad by discovering one more unlucky love, broken destiny and terrible misunderstandings. During the reading I forgot a bit about this poem form thing.

    Well, it depends of your tastes but this will not be the book of the year for me.

      

  • Lonely life

    Life on the country side is lonely and boring when it’s raining outside. I experienced it yesterday. It rained the whole day and the temperature went down a lot. Even in the house, which made that I spent the evening in bed, with an extra blanket, reading.

    I noticed this morning that I am dreaming a lot here during the night. I guess it’s because I don’t pollute my brain with computer watching (no internet).

    For the rest, I was very happy this morning to read that Damon Albarn, 47 years old, did not want to leave the scene at the Roskikde festival. Good, good Damon!